Right, I'm officially fucked off with the whole lot of it. I can't believe I can go from one extreme to another within a matter of minutes. I was actually happy today in work, the first time in a while, and that was because we were mates. We'd had a chat, and decided we didn't want to throw away our friendship. Just being near him makes me happy, so it was all good. Then, BANG, he lies again. he's on the phone to her again. I know I'm not meant to be happy about it, because obviously I won't be, but I'll be dealing with this a whole lot better if he told me the score. If he let me know what was going on so I could at the very least prepare myself for what was going to happen. but no, he lies. I trust him. I find out he's lying. I don't like him again. It's a horrible circle, that's never going to end whilst we try to be friends. so that's it. For real this time. It's over. Friendship and all.
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Just want to say,' if you have been lovers it is very hard to go back to bing friends, so let hi m go ok'
If you have afriend and want to keep that friendship then dont become lovers ok.
Lovers is rally just lust on a stick. I few hours of passionate pleasure is nice but has to be paid fir. the cost is your fiendship.
How can you look at him/her as a friend. you know every hair and bump on their body .
sad , but nothing is the same after that. I know .....
 | lizdavies [Member] 21/05/06 @ 19:39 |
I second that. Pretending to be friends just means one of you is still hoping to get back together. A love affair done doesn't get back to friends for years, and then usually only for the sake of the kids...
 | masklin [Member] 21/05/06 @ 20:54 |
I take it , that like me, you have tried to go back, or more likely, ended up having an affair with someone who was your freind, wow what a mistake. I did it and lost a wonderful friend. It was a loss it took me years to get over. I still think of her now, but you cant go back.
All happiness to you.
 | pollygarter [Member] 26/05/06 @ 22:58 |
I believe it is possible to move from friendship to lover and lover to friend - but only when neither of you are hurting and the person has not acted maliciously or callously. Sometimes we fool ourselves that we're seeking friendship when we want to rekindle, but sometimes friendship is possible.
just my two penn'orth...
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